Can You Love Someone (Truly) to Build Great Things Together?

A Single Way to See the Beauty of Life

Jose Lohman
6 min readOct 11, 2023
Rachel McAdams & Channing Tatum in “The Vow”

To love deeply and truly cares nothing about the words that you spit out of your mouth. True love comes from details that transcend in perseverance all the promises that you did to your partner.

True love seems like a dance in which you struggle with every step to keep rocking the floor. A ballad in which you both talking with your eyes. The eyes never lies but actions have more to do with love than feelings.

Stop talking, start building.

A Tragic Story to Prove the Importance of Things

I have kind of a “hero” named Ernest Becker. His story is quite tumultuous and sad but it serves to exemplify why we must really love everything we do, to each person with whom we share time, to that “love” with which we could build a future.

Ernest Becker, was passionate about the study of human behaviour and a scholar of psychology and sociology who saw his life immersed in incessantlayoffs from different universities for… we could say, being very critical and talking…

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Jose Lohman

🧬 Enthusiast of Relationships & Human Behaviour. 📖 Writer — Storyteller